Do's

Now, for the good stuff! Here are the things that we should do.

DO

1. listen.
2. dress appropriately.
3. take compliments.
4. smile.
5. flirt.
6. MAKE SOME DECISIONS.
7. ask about his family.
8. ask if he has eaten lunch or dinner.
9. invite him somewhere he wants to be, like a basketball game.
10. tell him about a movie you would like to see and buy the tickets online before you get there.
11. look at his strengths and see if they could help with your weaknesses and vice versa.
12. make us feel important.
13. pay attention to details...the smallest thing sometimes can be the most important.
14. have a good connection with his mom...that goes very far...whenever she likes you it is a plus.
15. always be yourself.
16. be proactive in the relationship, but not forward, include him in activities with your friends.
17. offer advice on generic areas of his life where he could use help, but don't be critical.
18. try to compromise.
19. be honest and humble (in the sense that you don't know everything).
20. dress classy. you cannot have on a mini skirt and try to be a wife. i cannot take you anywhere and you can not meet my family.
21. be understanding when I don't answer the phone. maybe i want to take a nap.
22. be cultured, know things.
23. be approachable (its hard for us to make a move). if you have a look on your face like "boy, get on somewhere." it doesn't help.
24. make us feel like we are undiscovered michael jordans', when in reality we have no hand or foot coordination.
25. (in short ladies, we should build them up. not tear them down.)